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Proverbs 17 ranges across family life, friendship, speech, justice, money, and conflict, with particular emphasis on preserving peace. Gossip, lies, bribes, mockery, unjust judgment, and repeated offenses deepen strife. Loyalty, forgiveness, restrained speech, patience, and fair dealing strengthen relationships. Wisdom stops a quarrel before it spreads, while folly continually feeds it.
Why it mattersPermalink
Character is revealed in how we handle tension. Refuse both destructive speech and the temptation to listen to it. Do not reopen every offense, mock suffering, distort justice, or use money to manipulate outcomes. Value loyal friendship and intergenerational honor. Stay calm, speak sparingly, and end preventable conflict early, because a quarrel becomes much harder to contain once released.
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The beginning of strife is like letting out water, so quit before the quarrel breaks out.